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Here's my issue. I've had lot's of feelings over the years that my wife was cheating but no proof. Well, she blew that one out of the water on my last deployment to Iraq when she cheated and got pregnant. I obviously plan to divorce her due to infidelity but can not afford a lawyer. I will also be persuing full custody of our four year old since I am getting out of the service and moving near my family in South Carolina. Department of Social Services had a case against her for neglect from when I was on my first deployment to iraq 3 years ago. I came home and worked that situation out with them by stabilizing the home life. DSS has stated to me that they will assist me in any way possible with the custody fight if I divorce her. Now to my question: I intend to pursue all this without a lawyer but with mountains of evidence against her. Does she have a leg to stand on as far as custody goes, spousal support, alimony, anything. I think this is open and shut. Can anyone comment on this?
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Well you do have good reason to divorce since she got pregnant and you are not the father. You either to get full or joint custody for your child and she need not to contest this since this shows she was unfaithful.
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Tim, sorry to read about your situation. I wish you were open to working on your marriage but when you say that the “obvious” thing to do is “x” then it seems like you’re not an easy person to talk to. Which then makes me wonder how often your wife might have tried to tell you things but communication was obstructed. I’m not saying she’s been a saint either, but couples can recover from many things. I developed the following 16-question quiz for people to assess certain issues. If it hits on areas that you and she wish were better then I’d love to try to connect. I can drive to SC some time. Here’s that quiz:
http://www.relationalharmony. org/page8/page8.php Best, Fernando | |