The first step to gaining control of your finances – and life – during divorce is to prepare a written, detailed, up-to-date budget. “Gather documentation to ensure that your budget is objective and not the product of guess-work,” says Diana Shepherd, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and the Editorial Director of Divorce Magazine. “First, you need to identify your sources of income, which includes revenue from full- and part-time employment, investment return, and self-employment income. Add up all the income from different sources to come up with total income.”
Here’s what you need to do to understand your income during divorce.
I FOUND WHAT I BELIEVED TO BE FRAUD AND DECEPTION IN A 1999 MARRIAGE AND RIGHT AWAY REQUESTED THEY START DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS, AS AN ATTORNEY STSTED I NEEDED TO GET MARRIED TO PROTECT MY SONS( WHOM WAS BEEN PRIOR TO, NOT IN A MARRIAGE) INTREST. SHE(MY ATTORNEY) SIGNED FOR US TO BE MARRIED AS HE COULD NOT LOCATE HIS BIRTHCERTIF, I WAS GIVEN A DIVORCE BASED ON DECEPTION. AS HE WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF A KIDNAPPIND AND WAS FROM MEXICO AND HAD ORDERS IN THE US SUPREME CT TO AGAIN BE DEPORTED, THIS AND HIM BEING A NON-CITIZEN I WAS NOT TOLD OF THIS TILL 2015 DESPITE MY ACCUSALS OF TO MY ATTORNEY AND THE MILITARY. LAST YR MY DAUGHTER WHO WAS 15 WHEN WE MET ADMITTED SHE HAD A CHILD WITH HIM AND THEY TRIED TO KILL US, ME AND HIS CHILD. SHE GAVE HER SON UP FOR ADOPTION AT 16 AS SHE SAID THE BABY BELONG TO A NEIGHBOR KID, THEN A BOY AT SCHOOL, I’M SURE THE ARMY DNA’S THE BABY AND FOUND IT TOO TO BE HIS AS HE AND HIS MOTHER KIDNAPPED HIS CHILDREN FROM FAIRBANKS AK IN 99 AND THE TANANAU CHIEF’S WERE INVOLVED, I ASKED THAT MY SON’S DNA BE DONE AT BIRTH IN COFFEE CO AL AS WE WERE NOT MARRIED, I NEVER GOT HIS BLOOD QUANTUM BACK. IN 2013 HIS FATHER HAD A COURT DATE I WAS ORDERED TO, MY SON HAD DNA DONE PRYOR AT MY ATTORNEYS OFFICE JODEE ROWE THOMPSON BY BRANDY MURRAH, i WAS TOLD AT COURT HE WAS WANTED ON FELONY CHARGES ELSE WARE, HE HAD SHACKLES AND CHAINS ON AND A ORANGE JUMPER. FROM WHAT MY DAUGHTER TOLD ME THEY WAS INVOLVED IN CULT LIKE ACTIVITIES, i WAS GIVEN A DOMESTIC VIOLANCE REPORT FROM ALASKA WHEREIN HE WAS ALSO ACCUSED OF MOLESTING HISTODDLER FEMALE DAUGHTER AND THAT WIFE MOVED TO A HOMELESS SHELTER IN FAIRBANKS, I HAD TRAVELED TO MEXICO WITH HIM WHEN OUR SON WAS APROX 7-8 MO OLD HE WAS PULLED OVER BY THE MEXICAN POLICE AND DIDN’T KNOW IF HE WAS MEXICAN OR AMERICAN, THIS WAS REPORTED TO MY ATTORNEY JODEE R THOMPSON SAID SHE WOULD LOOK INTO IT, IT WOULD TAKE HER NEARLY 2 YRS TO FILE AND US ARMY OFFICIALS LATER BOTH STATING HE WAS A US CITIZEN. I FOUND THAT HE HAD BEEN A WARD OF THE COURT I HAD MET HIM UNDER AN ALIAS AS HIS WIFE IN AK HAD ALREADY HAD HER SS# CHANGED, i FOUND THEY WERE INVOLVED IN A WICCAN LIKE CULT. i BELIEVE MY CHILD IS AN INDIAN CHILD HE HAS NOT BEEN ABLE TO CONTACT ANYTRIBAL AUTHORITY OR LOCATE HIS BLOOD QUANTUM FROM THE HOSPITAL WHERE HE WAS BORN OR FROM THE 2013 BLOOD DRAW AT OUR ATTORNEYS AND THE DALE CO DNA SO CALLED LAB OWNER BRANDY MURRAH IS NOW SERVING A PRISON SENTANCE SINCE 2013, I AND MY SON HAD CONTACTED THE DALE CO SHERIFF DEPT AND DA AND WAS TPLD THEY ARE ONLY PROVIDING ATTORNEYS FOR CHILDREN THAT HAVE BEEN ADOPTED, I HAVE BEEN INFORMED MY FAMILY HAS DISMISSED, DPOPPED, TRANSFEREDALL ON MY AND MY SON’S BEHALF WITHOUT MY KNOWLEGE.