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Divorce Magazine Publisher Offers 5 Valentine’s Day Survival Tips for Divorced People
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Contact: Dan Couvrette, Publisher and CEO, Divorce Magazine
2255B Queen St. East, Suite #1179, Toronto, Ontario, Canada M4E 1G3
(416) 368-8853 Ext. 24
[email protected]
www.DivorceMagazine.com
Some divorced people can find the hoopla surrounding Valentine’s Day to be a painful and isolating experience. Divorce Magazine Publisher Dan Couvrette offers 5 Valentine’s Day survival tips to transform a dreaded event into a day to embrace.
Marketing-inspired images of lovers exchanging heart-shaped boxes of chocolate, advertisements that invite couples to escape for a romantic getaway for two, and pretty much everything else to do with Valentine’s Day can paint a picture that is painfully at-odds with what many divorced people experience this time of year.
However, instead of being a day to dread, Divorce Magazine’s publisher Dan Couvrette has compiled a list of 5 Valentine’s Day survival tips for divorced people.
“Valentine’s Day doesn’t need to be something that divorced people dread,” noted Dan Couvrette, who remarried after his divorce 16 years ago. “Instead, Valentine’s Day can be an invitation to re-create oneself and start on the path towards a new life; one that is rich with possibilities for laughter, dating, romance and even — yes, believe it or not! — happy and successful remarriage. It all begins with following some simple and yet transformative lifestyle tips.”
Tip 1: Accept that divorce means your life has changed. There are many words to describe the experience of divorce — and not all of them are fit for publication! Without question, divorce can be emotionally overwhelming, financially terrifying, and psychologically traumatic. Despite all of this, the most important tip for you to move on with your life — domestically, romantically and in all other ways — is to accept that your life has changed. A great deal of sadness and anger may accompany this acceptance, but this can be cathartic instead of crushing. With change comes the opportunity for growth and renewal, and for better days ahead; including Valentine’s Day.
Tip #2: Learn from the experience. I know from personal experience that divorce takes a lot away from you — it takes your physical health, your emotional health, your money, your time, and sometimes even your self-respect and dignity and for some, their children and the love of their life. However, divorce can also give something incredibly valuable: knowledge that you can use to learn from the experience. Even if you believe that your spouse is 99% at fault for the break-up (which is unlikely, by the way), you can still learn from how you dealt with it — both positively and negatively. Use this knowledge to improve and grow, so that your future relationships are better — and you look forward to Valentine’s Day, instead of past it.
Tip #3: Get back in the game…eventually. After divorce, it’s a good idea to give yourself the time you need to heal your wounds, care for your kids, recreate your new financial life, restore your health, and focus on other key priorities before re-entering the dating scene. However, that doesn’t mean you should swear off dating forever. You can’t wait until you feel 100% safe and secure again before you dip a toe in the dating waters, because that absolute certainty will never come — and you’ll stand on the edge of the pool forever! Consider becoming a member of a credible dating service (including ones that cater specifically to divorced people, join a support group with other divorced people, or read books written by qualified experts who can give you the support you need to get back in the game.
Tip #4: Consider outside assistance to help you move forward. After divorce, friends and family can sometimes offer a helpful shoulder to lean on. But if you find that Valentine’s Day and all of the talk and imagery about romance, relationships, and cupid-inspired love floods you with unbearable or undesirable emotions, then it may be time to talk with a therapist. Choose one who specializes in helping divorced people recreate their life after divorce. There are also plenty of personal empowerment courses available.
Tip #5: Love yourself and your new single identity. No, this tip isn’t a mistake. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being single, and simply deciding that you want to enjoy and experience the single life for a change. Yes, other people will (unfortunately) keep asking you “if you’re dating again.” Don’t get mad at them — they mean well! And frankly, you won’t get mad at them if you embrace your new single identity and say to yourself: “I love myself, I embrace my new single identity, and I’m going to have some fun with this for a while!” If that “while” turns into months, years or decades that’s perfectly fine — as long as it’s something you’ve embraced.
Divorced people searching for more advice on relationships, dating after divorce and other divorce recovery issues can visit www.DivorceMagazine.com and browse an extensive library of practical and easy-to-read articles. The website also lists local counselors and other allied support professionals who can help divorced/divorcing people (and others) deal with the emotional and psychological challenges triggered by Valentine’s Day and other holidays.
About Divorce Magazine
Launched in 1996, Divorce Magazine is North America’s only magazine devoted entirely to divorce. The magazine is published twice a year with six regional editions and is full of helpful articles as well as guides to local divorce professionals. The website www.DivorceMagazine.com, has been a leading divorce-related source since 1996 and offers thousands of pages of self-help articles as well as divorce news, public forums, polls, information on local divorce professionals, and a blog located at https://www.divorcemag.com/blog. The company also runs www.BlogsOnDivorce.com, which features expert opinion and insight from leading divorce professionals, including judges, lawyers, mediators, therapists and more. For more information on Divorce Magazine, www.DivorceMagazine.com and www.BlogsOnDivorce.com, contact publisher and CEO Dan Couvrette at (866) 803-6667 ext. 24 or email [email protected].
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