Sometimes we get appointed by judges in our county to actually conduct mediation. Sometimes lawyers independently of the court system agree on the selection of a mediator and there are times that I’m selected by my colleagues to mediate a case. Mediation is an interesting phenomena. If it’s not properly handled and the parties are […]
Considering Divorce
What questions should you ask when hiring an attorney?
There’s a lot that goes into trying to find the person that you can work with so it will be a good and successful fit. Certainly, one of the most important things to explore when you’re sitting down with someone in that initial meeting and you’re considering hiring someone to represent you is the issue […]
What should a woman look for in a divorce lawyer?
For women who are feeling very fearful about their future, it can be tempting to hire the stereotypical shark or a pitbull attorney who promises to take their ex to the cleaners in court. The sad truth is that the shark attorney knows that they can prey on this sphere to their advantage, usually by […]
How can an attorney help create a marital settlement agreement to help save time?
A divorce agreement, also called a “marital settlement agreement,” can be drafted relatively quickly provided that the spouses have disclosed all income, identified all assets and liabilities, and have created a realistic settlement. By entering into a marital settlement agreement and asking a judge to accept it, you’re thereby waiving your right to a trial […]
How can you jumpstart divorce negotiations?
If you’re at a standstill over a hot button issue like child custody or alimony, try to reach an agreement on as many smaller issues as you can to gain momentum in your negotiations. Your divorce attorney can help you identify issues in your divorce that should be easy to settle. Reframe the discussion by […]
How can working with a lawyer save you time?
Some may think that representing themselves in their divorce without an attorney will save them time. Before you make a decision about self-representation or a do-it-yourself divorce, be aware that mistakes and errors made when going this route can result in the exact opposite of what you want. Your divorce may take much longer and […]
How can couples cut down the time it takes to divide assets like a home?
Many divorcing spouses find it helpful to streamline asset division into five basic steps. Start with a list of your real estate property and document the value as if the property were being sold on the market today. Then deduct any outstanding loans to determine the approximate equity in the home. Itemize current balances for […]
Why is it important to collect financial information as soon as you decide to divorce?
The basis for so many financial calculations in divorce ranging from child support to alimony depends on documented income levels. As soon as you can, exchange and review basic financial documents such as tax returns, deferred compensations, commission, W-2 forms, pay stubs, 1099s, even statements regarding stock options. When income is determined at the outset […]
What does a divorce wishlist accomplish?
Wish lists enable you to see which issues in the divorce will be easy to resolve, while narrowing down items that may be in dispute. For example, maybe both of you are in general agreement about custody, but have disagreements over certain assets. Now you know where to focus your energy. Understanding what your spouse […]
What is the number one way divorcing people can expedite their divorce?
Waiting for far-off court dates in New Jersey’s overcrowded court system can be frustrating. The amount of time and effort it takes to prepare for court can be overwhelming. If you want to put your divorce on a faster track, consider whether your divorce truly involves issues that need to be settled by a judge […]
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