A divorce by its nature is not charming. However, is there a way to aim to make it amicable? The internal experience of divorce usually mimics the experience of the death of a loved one. Although the person is not dead, we have lost them. The problem does not end here, because together with […]
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Mental-Health Professionals and Divorce: Are psychologists helpful in the divorce process?
When it comes to mental-health professionals and divorce, are psychologists helpful in the divorce process? Read on to see what psychologist Dr.Lami has to say about the role of a therapist.
How can a mental health professional make the divorce process easier…
“How can a mental health professional make the divorce process easier on your children?” For children, divorce can be stressful, sad, and confusing. At any age, kids may feel uncertain or angry at the prospect of mom and dad splitting up. As a parent, you can make it less painful for your children. Getting help […]
How can a mental health professional help in the collaborative process?
The Collaborative Divorce Process takes place when couples have chosen to avoid divorcing in the traditional way, deciding to not involve the court. Instead, they decide to work with a team of professionals to achieve a settlement that best meets the needs of both parties and their children. The team of professionals consists of […]
PODCAST: How can a lawyer help you divorce a spouse who’s actually very controlling very uncooperative during the process, what do you do then?
How can a lawyer help you divorce a spouse who’s very controlling? That is such a common scenario. So often I have people coming in to see me and they’re being controlled by their spouse, and the that the control has been going on for just years and years. What you need to do is […]
I’m a divorce lawyer representing a client who’s having an angry, bitter divorce…
“I’m a divorce lawyer representing a client who’s having an angry, bitter divorce. I want them to cool it down, but the spouses won’t let up with their personal attacks. What’s the right course here?” We know that efforts at bridge-building may be met with rebuffs. For example, a man might surprise his wife with […]
What is Parental Alienation Syndrome?
This syndrome is when one parent attempts to turn the child(ren) against the other parent or to keep the child away from the other parent. Attempts to alienate the child can be done in many different ways: from moving far enough away (though legal) to make it terribly inconvenient for the parent who may not […]
My new stepchildren treat me like a doormat. My own kids are starting to talk back to me, too.
“My new stepchildren treat me like a doormat. My own kids are starting to talk back to me, too. What can I do to improve the situation?” You can start with a discussion with your spouse. Let him or her know that you do not appreciate the way in which you are being treated by […]
I’m lonely after my divorce.
I’m lonely after my divorce. My ex-husband has the kids every other week and the house seems so quiet with them gone. What do I do to cure the loneliness that I feel when the kids walk out the door?
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Julia M. Garwood is a family-law attorney and divorce mediator based in San Diego, CA.
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