When my husband initiated a seemingly innocent discussion of our relationship nearly a year ago, I developed a gut feeling that something was very wrong – despite his protestations to the contrary. Fast forward a few months later and our 23-year marriage ended in divorce – something I didn’t want or expect. Thus began the process of […]
Infidelity
5 Reasons Why Keeping Secrets Can Destroy a Relationship
If you find yourself keeping secrets from your partners, it’s important to remember you could be destroying your relationship. Here’s why.
Top 5 Breakup Movies of All Time
As New Year’s quickly approaches, some may be feeling down about their loves lost over the years. It’s essential to your overall wellbeing that you continue to laugh and entertain yourself. As the great Charlie Chaplin once said, “To truly laugh, you must be able to take your pain and play with it.” And as […]
Holidays: Season of Divorce?
‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse. Dinner was cooking and sweet smells filled the air. She had such high hopes that her husband soon would be there. Suddenly there was a racket as that louse came home drunk. Falling and slurring, he […]
Forgiving the Other Woman… Even When…
She was one of your best friends. The betrayal is a double whammy. How could he? How could she? Yes, this happened to me. She was married too; my husband and I had dinner regularly with them as a couple. She and I had only known each other a few years, but we felt an […]
Get Over It: I Can’t Move On From My Divorce. What Am I Doing Wrong?
The process of divorce can be a tricky and painful experience. Learning to move on from your divorce, especially following infidelity, can be even harder.
How Do You Tell Your Mother You’re Separated?
When I finally told my mom, her reaction surprised me. One of the hardest things I had to do was tell people that my husband had moved out. Even when I thought I was strong enough to talk about it, with each new person I told, the horror and sadness came rushing back. Even the […]
Why Do So Many Children of Divorce Become Fatherless? Part 2
Here is a story that answers the question for many kids as to “why do so many children of divorce become fatherless?” in today’s society.
Writing Was My Lifesaver
Writing was my lifesaver. It helped me make sense of the tornado that had swept through my life. Whether you like to write or hate it, I urge you to keep a notebook by your bed and one in your purse or pocket.
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